Trust Takes Time: Healing from Infidelity through Couples Therapy

Rebuilding Trust

Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. When that trust is broken, it can feel like the relationship itself has been shattered. Infidelity is an extremely painful experience that leaves both partners feeling betrayed, angry, and confused. However, with professional guidance, many couples find that they can work through infidelity and build an even stronger relationship.

First Step to Healing

Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful can be extremely painful and traumatic. Feelings of disbelief, anger, sadness and betrayal are perfectly normal reactions to such a profound breach of trust. The one who strayed may also be flooded with intense shame, regret, and guilt as the magnitude of their actions sets in. Having an open conversation in a safe space is the first step to finding a resolution and eventual healing.

With a lot of work, understanding, and commitment to rebuilding trust, many couples are able to heal and recover after an affair. Other couples may decide to healthiest next step is to part ways. Each situation is unique and couples therapy can help you to gain clarity on your situation.

  • Understand the Root Cause

    Address the root causes that contributed to the infidelity. This helps to prevent future betrayals and set the foundation for a stronger, healthier relationship.

  • Improve Communication

    Learn communication and active listening skills and help you have honest, productive conversations about your relationship and your feelings.

  • Re-establish Trust

    We help you establish transparency and accountability to reestablish trust in the relationship. This is a challenging process that requires work from both partners.

  • Strengthen Your Connection

    We provide tools and strategies to increase intimacy, friendship, and romance between you and your partner.

  • Find Forgiveness

    For the relationship to heal, forgiveness is essential. We help you work through feelings of hurt and betrayal. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.

  • Set Expectations

    We will help you renegotiate the expectations, rules and boundaries of the relationship to set yourselves up for success going forward.

There is Life Beyond Infidelity

Our practice provides a safe, compassionate environment for couples recovering from infidelity. Using research-based modalities like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman Method, we help you process the emotional wounds while strengthening the attachment between you.

The road ahead will have ups and downs, but you don't have to walk it alone. With professional support, understanding, and new tools for relating, many couples do find their way back to each other after infidelity. A stronger relationship, built on trust and renewed commitment, is possible

Start your journey towards a brighter, more connected future

Meet Your Therapist

Vanessa Leggio, MSW, RSW

My philosophy on love is simple, it's about kindness, connection, and the joy of growing together.